Legacy Wealth

Legacy Planning: What Happens to Your Money After You Die

Published March 14, 2026 by Harbor Point Advisors

You worked 30 or 40 years to build something. You sacrificed. You saved. You made smart decisions when it would have been easier not to.

And when you're gone, the government is going to send your family a bill.

Not a small one. Not a manageable one. A bill that, without intentional planning, can consume a third or more of everything you built before your kids see a single dollar of it.

This is the conversation most advisors never have. Not because the information doesn't exist. Because solving it means admitting that the accounts they've been managing for you come with a tax liability they never fully disclosed.

What does your family inherit from a traditional IRA?

Inherited traditional IRAs and 401(k)s can carry tax consequences for beneficiaries, including a withdrawal timeline for many non-spouse heirs. That can affect the income your family reports after you die. The exact rules, taxes, beneficiaries, and timing should be reviewed with qualified tax and legal professionals.

What Your Family Actually Inherits

Here's what most people believe. When I pass away my retirement savings go to my family.

Here's what's actually true. When you pass away your traditional IRA or 401(k) goes to your family along with every tax dollar that was never collected on it. Your heirs don't inherit an asset. They inherit a tax deferred account with your name removed and a ten year countdown attached to it.

The SECURE Act of 2019 eliminated the stretch IRA for most non-spouse beneficiaries. Your children cannot spread inherited withdrawals across their lifetime anymore. They have ten years to take it all out. Every dollar they withdraw gets added to their taxable income for that year. If your child is in their peak earning years, and most people's children are when they inherit, those forced distributions could push them into the 32% or 37% federal bracket for a decade straight.

Here's what that looks like with real numbers. You leave your child a $600,000 IRA. Over ten years they're forced to withdraw $60,000 per year minimum. At a 32% federal rate that's nearly $19,000 in federal taxes annually. Nearly $190,000 in total federal taxes alone before state taxes are factored in. On money you already paid to build. On wealth you intended as a gift.

That's not a tax strategy. That's a generational wealth transfer to the IRS.

What is probate and how can it affect your family?

Probate is the court-supervised process of validating a will and distributing assets after death. It can involve delays, legal fees, and public records when assets are not structured to avoid it. How probate applies depends on the assets, ownership, beneficiaries, and state law.

Probate: The System Designed to Slow Everything Down

If your assets aren't structured correctly your family doesn't just face a tax problem. They face a legal one. At the worst possible time.

Probate is the court supervised process of validating your will and distributing your assets after death. Here is what that actually means for your family. Months of waiting before they can access anything. Legal fees that typically run 3% to 7% of the gross estate value. In a $1 million estate that's up to $70,000 gone before a dollar reaches your family. And because probate is public record, anyone can look up exactly what you owned, what you owed, and who you left it to.

The average probate process takes 9 to 18 months. Complex estates can drag on for years. Your family is navigating grief, loss, and a complete restructuring of their lives while attorneys bill by the hour and courts move at their own pace.

And here's the part that should make you angry. It is almost entirely avoidable.

Life insurance death benefits can pass directly to named beneficiaries outside probate when the policy and beneficiary designation are set up that way. Timing, costs, and public-record issues vary. Under current tax law, death benefits are generally income-tax-free to beneficiaries, though estate-tax treatment can differ.

Could estate taxes affect your legacy plan?

Estate-tax exposure can depend on the value of your estate, available exemptions, and where you live. Exemption amounts and state rules can change, affecting families with businesses, homes, retirement accounts, or investments. Estate-tax planning requires qualified legal and tax advice tailored to your circumstances.

The Estate Tax Cliff Nobody Is Talking About

The federal estate tax exemption is currently $13.61 million per individual. Most families feel comfortable at that level. They shouldn't be.

That exemption is scheduled to sunset at the end of 2025, potentially dropping to roughly $7 million per individual. Families who were comfortably under the threshold could find themselves exposed to a 40% federal estate tax on everything above it almost overnight. A business, a home, retirement accounts, investments. It adds up faster than most people expect.

And that's before state estate taxes enter the picture. Twelve states plus Washington D.C. have their own estate taxes. Several have exemptions as low as $1 million. In those states a modest home, a retirement account, and a small business can push an estate into taxable territory without anyone realizing it.

A 40% tax on assets above the threshold is not a rounding error. For a family business owner it can mean the difference between passing the business to the next generation intact or forcing a fire sale to cover the bill.

Life insurance can be a source of liquidity for estate expenses without requiring the sale of other assets. Any guarantees are subject to the issuing insurer's claims-paying ability. Whether proceeds are included in the taxable estate depends on policy ownership and the broader plan; under current tax law, death benefits are generally income-tax-free to beneficiaries.

How can life insurance help with legacy planning?

Life insurance can be one potential source of liquidity for beneficiaries and may allow money to pass to named beneficiaries outside the probate process. Whether it helps address estate expenses or taxes depends on policy design, ownership, beneficiary arrangements, and applicable law. It should be evaluated as part of a broader plan.

What Intentional Legacy Planning Actually Looks Like

With the right policy and beneficiary arrangement, your family may receive a death benefit outside probate that is generally income-tax-free under current tax law. Timing, costs, and estate-tax exposure depend on the policy, ownership, beneficiary arrangement, and the broader plan.

Instead they get clarity. A defined amount. A clean process. And the freedom to grieve without a financial crisis running alongside it.

I have sat across from a lot of families over the years. Adult children trying to sort out an inherited IRA they didn't know was coming with a tax bill attached. Surviving spouses navigating probate alone while grieving. Business owners who never structured a buy-sell agreement watching their partner's family inherit a stake in the company they built.

Every one of those situations was preventable. Every single one.

The people who avoided them didn't have better luck. They had a plan. And they made it before the conversation became urgent.

What's Next

What does intentional legacy planning look like?

Intentional legacy planning means identifying what your family may receive, how accounts and assets pass, and what costs or timing issues could arise. Planning before the conversation becomes urgent can provide clarity. Review beneficiary designations, probate exposure, tax considerations, and business arrangements as part of a coordinated plan.

In our final post of this series we're going to get specific about wealth-transfer strategies. How to structure a policy for legacy planning, how a death benefit may generally pass to beneficiaries income-tax-free under current law, and what families should consider.

If you want to make sure your family keeps what you've built, reach out. Twenty minutes, no pressure, no obligation, just clarity.

Important disclosures

This article is educational and general in nature. It is not tax, legal or investment advice and does not account for your circumstances. Indexed universal life insurance is a life insurance product, not an investment. Policy charges, cost of insurance, caps, participation rates and spreads affect results, and cash value can decline in a year when the index credit is zero. Policy loans and withdrawals reduce the death benefit and available cash value, and a lapse or surrender with a loan outstanding can create a taxable event. Any guarantee is subject to the claims-paying ability of the issuing insurance company. Tax treatment reflects current law, which can change. Talk with a qualified tax, legal or financial professional about your own situation.

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Harbor Point Advisors is an insurance agency. Adam Stevens is a licensed insurance professional, license number 3004330767, NPN 22297129. Not a registered investment adviser or broker-dealer.

This article is educational and is not individualized investment, tax, or legal advice.